| Funerals
The death of someone we love can be
such a painful time for family and friends. So that person’s funeral
needs to be a dignified and sensitive occasion, for giving thanks and
celebrating his or her life, while also grieving and expressing
something of the deep sense of loss we feel.
When someone
dies, there is always a huge amount of work to be done by the widow or
widower, the children or those responsible for sorting things out. All
our local undertakers are excellent – sensitive, experienced and
knowledgeable. At St Michael’s, we very much want to be able to help,
and, especially, we want to make the Funeral Service a personal and
powerful statement - that each life is valuable and valued, that each
person, whoever they are and whatever their age, background or
circumstances, has been loved and will be missed... and always
remembered.
God knows
how hard it can be and He is with us all the way. So a funeral is also a
time for reflecting on the meaning and purpose of life. The loss of
someone focuses our minds and hearts and can help us appreciate what
really matters.
Everyone
living in the parish – of all faiths and none - has the right to a
funeral in the Parish Church and burial in our beautiful churchyard, a
real haven of peace and much loved and cared for.
We are also
pleased to take a funeral service at Crownhill Crematorium if that is
preferred.
Funerals are
so important. So, if you have lost someone and would like to get in
touch, please do so. Usually, the undertaker will contact one of the
clergy and then we will get in touch with the family and come and see
you. We will sit with you – for as long as you need and it takes – and
work with you on the most appropriate readings, hymns and prayers. Most
importantly, we will listen to you talk about the person who has died –
and, if you wish us to, we will speak about them at the service, unless
you have someone who can do so.
Taking a
funeral is a great privilege. Summing up a person’s life, describing
briefly who they are and what they’ve done over the years, is so
important. Trying to catch their closest relationships, listening for
the ups and downs, hearing people laugh – and cry – at special
memories... these all matter so much.
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